Online Dating Decoder

We’ve all had them — the date from hell, an odious experience where we’re forced to endure the company of some mouth-breather who makes you wonder if the dating pool has just been hit with a wave of red tide.  In the case of digital dating, deciphering the deceptive spin that Darwin’s rejects often use in their online profiles can be challenging … until you break the code.

In an effort to help you understand the true meaning of all those rose-colored claims, here is a list of popular buzzwords and their real translations.
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Down to Earth = Dirt poor.

Chill = Drunk, and possibly high.  Bring bail money.

Seeking someone outgoing and fun = Sluts only, please.

Just looking to see what’s out there = Want a commitment?  Don’t count on me.  Hell, I can’t even leave the house to hunt for ass.

Looking for an honest relationship = YOU should be honest, me… not so much.

Take it slow = I date as many people as possible.  Hop on board the Train-Wreck Express.

Just hanging out… = (… of my pants).

Are all the good ones taken? = Have I chased them all off with my insanity?  Do I need to move?  Again.

Energetic. = Coke addict.

Loves life. = Until someone else brings me down.  I’ll blame our inevitable break up on you.

People person. = Whore.

Looking for a best friend. = Seeking a piggy bank and an enabler.

Passionate. = Emotionally unstable.  Think restraining order.

Good looking and successful. = Self-absorbed jackass.

I have… (property, fancy car, high-paying job, etc.). = I’m hoping this will get me laid and inspire you to put up with a lot of B.S. along the way.

No head games. = Only one of us can play those in this relationship, and that would be me.
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Sensitive and caring.
= Co-dependent and clingy.

Go to the gym three to four times a week. = Mainly to ogle members of the opposite sex.  I’ve not had success, so I’m trying my luck online with photos that are 20 years old.

Creative artist. = Unreliable swinger.  You may get an STD.

Say what you mean. = Cause one of us has to have a clue, and it aint me.

Looking for someone who will treat me (like a lady/like a man). = Pay my bills and let me behave like a child.

Loves to cuddle. = Impotent.

Ready to start dating again. = Still emotionally defunct and unavailable.

I don’t have faith in online dating. = I’m playing coy and want you to think I’m different than every other crotch-sniffer on here.

Looking for a good personality. = Must be attractive AND a doormat.

A real catch. = I’ve been tossed back MANY times before, but I swear I’m worth the raging insanity and all-night drinking binges.

Friends first. = With benefits.  I want to date and sleep with a LOT of people, and you need to win me over while I pick the person who strokes to my ego the best.

Self-employed. = Pan-handler.

Average. = Fat.

Athletic. = Stocky/fat.

Thin. = Flabby and possibly anorexic.

A few extra pounds… = …worth of double chins

I look in my 30s. = I’m really in my late 40s and can’t face the reality that I should date someone my own age.

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Looking for something more. = Looking for the next best thing.  I’ll never be satisfied.

Looking for someone who is sweet…
= … and a sucker.


Young at heart.
= I drive a white van with no windows and have a bumper sticker that says, “My other car is an ice cream truck.”


Spontaneous.
= Stupid – possibly a result of poor genetics or too many times trying to emulate the guys from Jackass.


I will rock your world…
= after I slip you a roofie.


Sense of humor a must.
= I look funny naked.

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Stephanie Starr spent six years as a competitive bodybuilder, two living in the middle of the woods with wolves, and a lifetime of being raised by a pack of funeral directors. Although her Master's degree in journalism and Bachelor's in psychology helped hone her craft as a writer, the five years she spent working with mentally ill adults are what really prepared her for a career in publishing. Visit her blog at self-mademaniac.blogspot.com.

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